So the other night I was thinking about the check marks in my head that I make when I go on dates. ๐So if you wanna know, here they are! Also, I wanna know what you ladies look for! So comment below! P.S: I didnโt know it was national bf day today ๐ .
1. He opens the doors: Obviously we all know this, but sometimes people get too comfortable in the relationship and donโt think itโs necessary. I remember I heard someone once say that it wasnโt menโs fault that they donโt act like gentlemenย anymore, it was the womenโs fault for not requiring the things that make a man a gentleman. SHOOK.
2. He comes to the door to pick me up: I feel like this says a lot about a man. One, it means youโre not lazy, but also it means that you appreciate this date so much that you are willing to actually come to my door and get me. Also same thing for when he drops you off, make sure he waits to leave until AFTER you enter the house. If he leaves beforehand, girl, you need to teach him some things. LOL like Iโm not trying to get kidnapped out here!! 3. He walks on the side of the street & sits facing the door: So this is something I have to teach every guy. One, walking on the right side of the street is just a sign of protection because you never know what crazies are out there. Two, guys should always sit facing the door because if there is a robbery, shooting, etc. he needs to be aware of the surroundings so he can protect you.
4. He pays: I feel like this is always an on-going topic but I think especially where I am from men are taught to take care of the females even if theyโre just friends. Itโs a courteous thing to do. Now, when youโre in a serious committed relationship I feel like as a women you can also chip in just like you would in a marriage. You can also show appreciation by buying him gifts but I think when he is taking you out on a date, him paying shows that he will always make sure you have what you need.
5. Is he decisive?: I LOVE when a guy has a plan. First of all, we all know how hard it is for girls to decide, so just be a man and do it. .
Now of course these arenโt deal breakers, these are just things I check off in my head. Tag a friend below!