Jolene : JoJoBeautifullyMe
My mom. I have been blessed with a really supportive parental system. They aren't perfect, but what human is right?
My mom once gave me this advice: "Setting boundaries with people is important and being able to say no is powerful. Especially when it comes to friendships and relationships." Realizing that there are some people in life who just won't give you the same courtesies you give them can be really hard and it can hurt alot when those people are close to you.
As someone who got alot of myself worth from what others thought of me and tended to be very people pleasing this was a difficult lession to learn. I would say yes to doing so many things that I would stress and wear myself out to the point of getting sick. It's still an area I'm working on, being able to say no and not feeling the need to apologise for taking care of myself, and I'll probably be working on it for a long time.
Mom's advice has always been exactly what I needed to hear so you all will probably get to read more of it in the future. ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸ð¼ð¸ðºð¸
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