If it's not #aaliyah, my #sisters or my mom, I generally do not have a #wcw unless you have helped me alot in my journey. After reading about a super dope post from @fitness_iq about #lifeenergy, I definitely want to share my #twocents. Life energy is the most important currency of the human race aka #time. What you spend your time with is very crucial in the #social, #mental, #physical and #spiritual aspects of your life.
When you give too much of your time to people that don't see your value, it really hurts. Its crushing and brutal and even if you get into arguments with them or won't get them out your head, you still lost. You are throwing your given life energy so freely and unlike money....YOU WONT GET IT BACK. I admit, I have wasted so much time so called "friends" that literally love the idea of "Chioma Ozuzu", but not me for me. I felt so used up, gaslighted and taken advantaged of to the point that I nearly quit photography and many other passions a few times. Real talk.
For those who can relate, do me a huge favor. DON'T FEEL for a second that you are not worth it. Instead of spending negative thoughts of what is lost and negative energy, manifest love and positivity for what you want, even if you don't feel you are not yet worth it.
Despite how angry and upset of how things didn't work out to my liking, everything is planned for a reason. To start, don't write a long ass letter or approach people in general for those who wronged/hurt you. Just simply go and leave them be, despite the promises you wanted to keep together.
Why should you go out your away if they can't reciprocate the same? There is no point in giving 💯, if they give you less than 50%
In my opinion, the word, MAYBE (at times) means that you don't care as much and you are going to waste someone's life energy. Its selfish if you use that word to sucker people into something.
But always and often, thank and appreciate those that did help you and do the same.
Go and live beautifully.
Photography by: @danielnorton
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